YYA General Guidelines and Strike System

 

Strike System:

  1. General public warning to group of impending strike
  2. Strike 1 - private warning
  3. Strike 2 - parent notification
  4. Strike 3 - parent notification and suspension from calendar events until further notice by Pastor and Youth Coordinator

Do NOT:

  • Act irreverent in worship area, by using cell phone/ protable electronic device, eating or drinking, talking idle talk or wearing glasses/hats*
  • Throw any ice or liquids*
  • Display PDA* (prolonged embraces, cuddling, sitting on people, holding hands, leaning on people, kissing or anything that wouldn't do with a sibling)
  • Play, listen and/or watch vulgar movies or music*
  • Being tardy for calendar events when already on church property*
  • Swear*
  • Spread rumors to defame the character of anyone*
  • Show disrespect to leaders by word or deed*
  • Act irreverent in Mass or prayer, either by talking unnecessarily, making faces, playing with things, making other people laugh, touching other, etc.*
  • Flirt or initiate exclusive relationships that lead to 'dating'*
  • Limit yourself by staying around one person or one group, in a clique*

  • Strip (in front of people)**
  • Wear suggestive attire (i.e. words on inappropriate places, nudity on shirts, etc.)**
  • Play games that lead to immodesty, such as truth or dare, spin the bottle, etc.**
  • Look at inappropriate locations on people**
  • Leer inappropriately at people**
  • Play with Ouija boards, tarots or any form of black arts**
  • "Date" anyone in ministry, persist in checking out and/or act as if being in an exclusive relationship**

  • Physically fight with anyone***
  • Physically harm oneself***
  • Engage in sexual actions and/or sexual harassments***
  • Use or bring drugs or cigarettes***
  • Vandalize or destroy parish property***
  • Steal or rob***
  • Show insubordination with defiance in the face of reproof***
  • Engage in terrorisitc threatening***

 

I understand and agree that my parent(s) or guardian will be notified at the time of infractions, requiring my dismissal from any Youth Ministry program, event, or activity and that I will be sent home at my own or my parent or guardian's expense. I have read the attached strike system and understand that if I do not follow the rules set forth by the strike system, I will be dismissed from St. Jude Catholic Church Youth Ministry for as long as the Youth Minister states. I also understand that disobeying any of the numbers on the strike list is cause for automatic dismissal from any Youth Ministry event. I agree to uphold and exemplify positive Catholic values and morality at all Youth Ministry programs, events and activities.