General Guidelines for Adult Volunteers in SYYAM

 

As a volunteer, I WILL:

  1. Conduct myself in a manner tha exhibits the highest Christian ethical standards including developing and maintaining the level of skills required to be a competent volunteer.
  2. Treat everyone with respect, loyalty, patience, integrity, courtesy, dignity and consideration.
  3. Be knowledgeable of and adhere to the applicable aspects of the Safe Environment manual.
  4. Avoid situations where I am alone with children and/or youth while volunteering, always following the two adult rule.
  5. Use positive reinforcement and communication rather than criticism, unhealthy competition, or comparison when working with children and/or youth.
  6. Honor the equality of all people, avoiding all forms of discrimination and respecting the diginity of each person without regard to economic status, age, gender, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, or physical or mental abilities.
  7. Be responsible/accountable for stewardship of all resources entrusted to my care.
  8. Exercise prudent judgment in the giving or accepting of gifts of benefits.
  9. Report suspected abuse to the pastor, administrator, or appropriate supervisor and the local Child Protection Services agency. I understand that failure to report suspected abuse to civil authorities is, according to the law, a misdemeanor.
  10. Cooperate fully in any investigation of abuse of children and/or youth.
  11. Become thoroughly familiar with the objectives and guidelines of the program and strive to achieve these objectives and communicate them to youth and parents.
  12. Uphold the authority of those responsible for the program or activity (DYM, DRE, Prinicpal, Parish Staff, Officials, etc.) and assist them in every way to encourage learning and to conduct fair and impartial events.
  13. I will carefully follow the Diocesan guidelines for chaperones which provide for the safety and supervision of those entrusted to my care.
  14. Avoid any form of over familiarity, inappropriate language, or any situation and conduct which exploits another.
  15. Follow practices that consistently exhibit no tolerance for any form of abusive behavior.
  16. Follow practices which demonstrate appropriate affection between all Church personnel and minors which is important for a child's development and a positive part of Church life and ministry. The following forms of affection are regarded as appropriate examples:

      • Side hugs
      • Shoulder to shoulder "temple hugs"
      • Handshakes
      • "High-fives" and hand slapping
      • Verbal praise
      • Touching hands, faces, shoulders and arms of minors
      • Arms around shoulders
      • Holding hands while walking with small children
      • Sitting beside small children
      • Kneeling or bending down for hugs with small children
      • Holding hands during prayers

  17. Be aware of and clearly understand the Behavioral Standards for Volunteers and act in accord with them.
  18. Be aware of and adhere to emergency plans and evacuation routes appropriate to the program.

As a volunteer, I WILL NOT:

  1. Smoke or use tobacco products in the presence of children and/or youth.
  2. Use, possess, or be under the influence of alcohol at anytime while volunteering.
  3. Use, possess, or be under the influence of illegal drugs at anytime.
  4. Pose any known health risk to children and/or youth (i.e. no fevers or other contagious situations).
  5. Use physical discipline in any way or behavioral management of minors. No form of physical discipline is acceptable. This includes spanking, slapping, pinching, shaking, hitting or any other physical force as retaliation or correction for inappropriate behavior of a minor.
  6. Neither humiliate, ridicule, threaten, or degrade children and/or youth nor tolerate them in the environment for which I am responsible.
  7. Touch a child and/or youth in a sexual or other inappropriate manner.
  8. Use any discipline that humiliates or demeans children and/or youth.
  9. Use profanity in the presence of children and/or youth.
  10. Some forms of physical affection have been used by adults to initiate inappropriate contact with minors, in order to maintain the safest possible environment for minors, the following examples of affection that are inappropriate and are not to be used:

      • In appropriate or lengthy embraces
      • Kisses on the mouth
      • Holding minors over two years old on the lap
      • Touching bottoms, chests or genital areas
      • Showing affection in isolated areas of the facility such as bedrooms, closets, staff only areas and other private rooms
      • Sleeping in bed with a child
      • Touching knees or legs of minors
      • Wrestling with minors
      • Tickling minors
      • Piggyback rides
      • Any type of massage given by a minor to an adult
      • Any type of massage given by an adult to a minor
      • Any form of unwanted affection
      • Compliments that relate to physique or body development